Isn't this girl beautiful. She is amazing too. This girl and I have a very special relationship. We know one another's strengths so well. When one of us is down often the other is able to help out to lift the other. At the same time we know each other's weaknesses. It is almost how scary the two of us are alike. When I see her struggling with something I often can draw upon a similar situation in my life and know exactly what she is feeling. There is one area where we strongly differ and that is her athletic talent.
Growing up I desperately wanted to be athletic. I would try so many different sports, but I was so uncoordinated. Whenever I tried to get the ball to go one way it would go directly the opposite. Did I ever tell you I was on my High School varsity volleyball team?
Did I ever tell you there wasn't any other team?
Did I ever tell you one time the opposing team discovered that I am not able to hit anything that is directly served to me? Did I ever tell you that this same opposing team proceeded to serve 11 direct hits straight at me until my coach mercilessly took me out of the game.
Yep athleticism is not something that is within me. Although apparently it is in my DNA. Or at least my DNA isn't strong enough to cancel out Ken's athletic genes. Although I prefer to think that somewhere buried deep inside I have some awesome athletic DNA. Something to make up for all the times when I work out and my face turns so red people think I am going to pass out. No really my face just naturally turns that color. I need to believe that I can be redeemed for the time I competed in the mile at our field day, and I was so far behind the field assistants thought I was in the next heat.
There is something beautiful in seeing your child do something that you will never be able to achieve. I remember the time I ran against Midge. She was 6 and I was 31. We finished with her crossing the finish line first. She glanced over at me and said, "Mom you didn't have to let me win." In total honesty I replied, "I didn't let you win baby." She has a gift and maybe that is why Ken and I have been a little frustrated. She simply didn't want to train. We tried bribing her. We tried threatening her. Nothing was working. We know that she is fast, but we also knew that she could be even better if she trained. Then we stumbled upon the running club.
Ken's father had started a group for him when he was about the same age. Nothing special just a small group of kids who want to run. We needed kids who were fast enough to keep up with her, but also people she would feel comfortable with. We asked around and soon we came up with a small group of 5 kids who are all the same age. They meet twice a week and go for longer distance runs. Did I mention that the entire team are boys except for my baby girl? Hey whatever works right?
This was the cheering squad.
I am so proud of Ken for taking this on. He is an amazing coach. Very knowledgable, patient and great at knowing your strengths. If you ever get the chance to be trained by him it is definitely worth it. He makes everyone feel great about their work and will meet you at your level. The boys were shocked at how fast he was and love trying to beat him when they do sprints. Midge is really proud of her dad as well and I love the bonding that is taking place between the two of them through this.
Love this little shadow of mine.





















































